Party pooped

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Party pooped

by KandAmoist @ 09/09/2007 – 19:27:05

Well, it was all a bit of an anti-climax really. Mrs D's party was fine, Sir A and slave didn't turn up, but she had invited her first extra-marital lover and his wife ... so I suppose she'd got the first and last (me) there, as it were. I sat with Mrs K all the time, keeping her company, she's definately NOT a party animal, and sitting with her keeps me in check.

One of my other ex female colleagues was there and we always have a great laugh - see the same funny side in most things - and we did this time as well. Her hubby doesn't dance so she and I did, and she is a very, very sexy looking woman - so that gave me a bit of a buzz. And another much younger woman I lust after came and sat with us and we both seem quite content not to move our legs when they touched - I'm sure I read much more into it than was there ... she probably just didn't notice.

Mrs D and I kissed on arrival and parting and there was nothing there other than the kiss of friends. There was just one moment where I had a frisson of how things used to be - I walked past her on the way to the toilet and felt just a fleeting wish that she'd notice and would follow for a stolen private moment, but that feeling passed in a second and everthing was back on an even, bland, keel.
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- deleted user (Visitor)
- 09/09/2007 @ 21:28:06
a bit of an anti-climax indeed. I still find it weird that she invites ex lovers to a party. Like she is trying to prove something, but what? Did your wife enjoy the party, despite not being a party animal?
- - KandAmoist
  - 10/09/2007 @ 08:21:59
  I guess you can most easily do such when you have completely "divorced" yourself from the affair you had with that person. I think Mrs D has shown she is very well able to partition her mind; for instance her ability to see her infidelity to her husband and her right to have a fulfilling sex life as being completely different from her husband infidelity and his desire to have sex
  - - deleted user (Visitor)
    - 10/09/2007 @ 21:08:56
    I am surprised that she was apparently not more understanding of her husband. I would be of mine, but I think we have already touched on that before. I never read your post about Mr D's affair and the fall out, maybe you could point me in the right direction.
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- antlady69 ^Pro
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- 10/09/2007 @ 01:50:57
Congrats, it really sounds as if you've moved on. Well done!

And I'm glad you listened to the brain in your head and not to the one between your two big toes
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- KandAmoist
- 10/09/2007 @ 08:23:08
yes, but my worry is that my "male brain" will suffer from senility if it doesn't get enough exercise!
- - antlady69 ^Pro
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  - 11/09/2007 @ 09:58:29
  But you don't really need anyone else for that exercise...
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- KandAmoist
- 10/09/2007 @ 08:30:22
It was very interesting: this was a 25th wedding anniversary celebration, part way through Mrs D's husband said a few words to the guests, about how great it was to see everyone, hope they enjoy themselves, lots to eat and drink; cake being served etc ... but I didn't hear him say anything about 25 years of married life. Seems that the major point of it all (for him at least) was the party, not the reason for it. Sad.
- - deleted user (Visitor)
  - 10/09/2007 @ 21:07:19
  come on, you can't be that surprised. It would be pretty hypocritical of him to pretend that they were a wonderful 25 years wouldn't it.
  - - KandAmoist
    - 11/09/2007 @ 12:32:13
    Yes, but that's what people do at these events - ignore the crap and emphasise the (mostly imagined) wonderful.
    
    It wouldn't have cost him anything to say something like " thank you Mrs D for putting up with me for all these years, you are one of a kind"
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- phinebooty
- 10/09/2007 @ 11:11:10
and there you were fretting about certain guests coming. it's a bit like being an alcoholic isnt it? meeting with ex/sometime lovers. You get a rush of desire, but if it's not offered(the alcohol) you pass, if someone gives it to you you drink, perhaps with misgivings, but you enjoy the drink. that could have happened with you and MrsD in her toilet.

I just think it's sad that people go to the strain of keeping up apprearances by having meaningless parties. I think i could have cracked under the pressure but what do i know? i have never been near an alter and made vows
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- Sienna ^Pro
- 11/09/2007 @ 12:01:09
Women do notice legs touching.
- - KandAmoist
  - 11/09/2007 @ 12:30:00
  Last time she'd been at dinner at ours, this young woman (even younger than Curvee) stood beside my chair as she was getting ready to leave and played with my hair, which I'm letting grow at the moment, thus it is rather long and curly.
  
  I've told her before that I fancy her and we both joke about me being a dirty old man ... but I feel that if she didn't like me/my attention she wouldn't present herself for a kiss and give me a hug on arrival and leaving, would have removed her leg from touching me, and wouldn't have run her fingers through my hair. Her boyfriend seems pretty cool about it - takes it in his stride. Obviousl doesn't feel threatened.
  
  I guess I'll choose to see things that way and boost my ego!
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- smitty1247
- 11/10/2007 @ 21:48:12
She invited her ex-lovers, did she have her current one there too or is that Sir A? I agree with SJ that she would like to prove something or do it to rub it her husbands face. Granted I don't know any of the story before this, but outside looking in, it strikes me as odd.
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